PUBLICATION D160

Talking Through Tough Times: Guidance for Communicating to Children During Tragedy and Tragic News

Publish Date: August 22 2023 |  Language: English

DOI: doi.org/10.7290/UTIAPub/D160

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Summary

Tips for talking with children about tragedies and frightening news in a calm, age-appropriate way. Encourages adults to prepare by learning basic facts, ask what children already know, and explain events at a developmentally suitable level, including for children with disabilities. Emphasizes modeling calm, listening, reassuring children about safety, and focusing on hope and helpers. Recommends limiting media exposure, supporting coping through routines and self-care activities, watching for signs a child is struggling, and seeking professional help when needed.